Separation anxiety is a common emotional response that occurs when a person feels stressed after being away from someone they’re emotionally attached to.
Understanding the causes and symptoms of separation anxiety is the first step to easing it effectively.
What Is Separation Anxiety?
Separation anxiety is a condition where a person experiences fear when away from a familiar figure.
Symptoms you might notice:
- Outbursts when left alone
- Fear of being alone
- Feeling sick due to worry
Why It Happens
The causes can be emotional.
Possible triggers are:
- Moving to a new place
- Divorce or separation in the family
- Overprotective parenting
- Mental health disorders
Spotting the Signs
Recognizing it early is especially important in new situations.
Look out for these red flags:
- Fearful reactions to separation
- Worrying excessively about loved ones’ safety
- Nightmares about separation
Helping Kids Cope with Separation
Supporting children through separation anxiety requires clear communication and structure.
Strategies to help include:
- Say goodbye consistently
- Gradually increase time apart
- Encourage self-soothing skills
- Avoid sneaking out
How Adults Can Cope with Separation Anxiety
Adults can also face separation anxiety, especially in relationships, travel, or after loss.
Ways to deal with here it:
- Exploring CBT or talk therapy
- Mindfulness and meditation
- Staying socially connected
- Identifying negative thought patterns
Knowing When It's Serious
If separation anxiety is causing intense distress, it may be time to seek help.
Red flags to consider:
- Daily disruption due to anxiety
- Frequent illness from stress
- Refusing to engage in normal life
Support and Hope
Separation anxiety can be intense but temporary.
Whether it’s a child learning to go to school or an adult adjusting to change, the journey takes time and compassion.